Maddie tells a story about her younger days, with a different Headmaster.
It’s a hot scene but it’s had to leave my blog because it’s published now, and publishers don’t like their stuff to be available for free. I’ll put up a link to where you can buy this very hot text, shortly.
I have never thought of it that way, to get a caning so the fear for it can stop. Or does the fear build every time, is the question…
Rebel xox
I think fear of the cane decreases with experience, and ability to take the cane, and ability to eroticise the experience all grow with experience.
So the first caning really is the hardest, I think, from the submissive’s point of view.
Though I’d hope there’s always some fear, so it keeps its aura and gravitas, and still has a deterrent effect.
That makes so much sense to me…fearing the unknown and things being better if you get them over with early. I’ve never considered it in kink or D/s terms, but its absolutely right.
If I’m starting a new relationship with a submissive, and it’s a Master/owned woman sort of relationship, I’m likely to find a reason for caning her fairly early.
Otherwise fear of the cane does build up. The cane is a bit of a challenge, but it i’s easier when the submissive has experienced it, and they know it’s painful but not unbearable, and they know they came through it.
Usually in my experience they came through it feeling kind of giddy, happy and aroused, once the pain had dropped down to background level. Which happens quite quickly. One woman told me that she doesn’t like getting the cane, but she loves the feeling, afterwards, of _having been caned_. That was neatly worded, and it seems to me to sum up how quite a few submissives feel about it.
(But I’m not as brave as your average submissive, so I only know at second hand.)
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