Beneath the sexiness of spanking, which I’ve discussed here, there’s something very comforting in being spanked, for many submissives.
I read somewhere that one of the reasons it’s so emotionally soothing is that it has sensual links to something that human, chimp and bonobo mothers all do. A common form of comforting is when the mother holds the baby against their body, and almost absent-mindedly smacks the baby’s bottom. Gently, while swaying or rocking back abd forwards, up and down.
The meaning of this gesture, it’s been suggested, is:
Hand on bottom: It’s okay, I’ve got you.
Hand away: But there’s no emergency, you’re safe, so I don’t have to hold you tight.
Hand back on bottom: But if there were danger, I’d hold you tight and protect you.
Hand away: But there’s no need.
Hand back on bottom: Still, I’m here.
And so on. Not quite forever, but it can go on for quite a while.
So this kind of comforting still carries a sort of physical memory for the submissive. He or she is being looked after, and they’re ok.
Anyway, my girl will be back in this position as fast as possible, once she’s cleared Customs.